|Yes, that is BoyWonder on the right!|
There was the guy who sat down with my pre-dinner glass of wine, and said "so what do you think my name is?". Seems the night we'd met at a book launch he'd given me his working pseudonym - but in the three weeks since then, and our almost daily emails, he hadn't thought to inform me of his actual name! All of a sudden I wasn't on a date with a Rick*, and instead was dating Adrian*... he then proceeded to split the bill exactly down the middle, and our after-dinner drink was at my expense as he'd paid for the pre-dinner drink. I would usually have offered to get the latter drinks, but thought him a bit miserly since he'd asked me out, picked venues etc, and it wasn't what I was used to.
But I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to a second date - making it a weekday lunch, he came to Canary Wharf to meet me during my break from the world of international finance (well, working as a Personal Assistant to a high-flier anyhow). It was a bitterly cold day in the depths of a London winter. I booked a table and said I'd meet him at one of the local bar-restaurants. I had got caught up in the office, and had phoned to tell him I was running a bit late, so I was surprised Adrian* was standing outside. Thought that was a bit weird considering the weather, but he was "admiring the view" as he'd never been to the area before. And then he proceeded to tell me he'd left his wallet at home, but our next date would be on him. Now I wasn't even sure I wanted this date, let alone another. So I made my excuses about it being frantic in the office (which was true) and could we take a rain-check (perhaps not so truthful). I walked him part-way to the station - more to make sure he wouldn't see me double back, phone my friend who worked nearby and ask if she's had lunch already as I had a table booked. She wondered why I had a table booked and I told her for that answer, I'd need a glass of wine...
I'm not sure if I should be dreading the potential dating dramas of the future, or relishing them as blog fodder?
Care to share any of your dating dramas?
* names have been changed to protect the innocent... or perhaps because I've forgotten them
Cheers, KangaRue :)